A Video to share with...

[a video, which a nerb wake up 4 in the morning to study for her coming test-company law]

[anyone please take her to the nearest hospital]

F.Y.I

she is actually singing-The Ting Tings-That's not my name

part- 'Are you calling me darling?'

'Are you calling me bird?'

and continuosly...

真是不容易的情懷

一名署名約翰衛斯理的人寫了這樣一個故事。

一對夫婦在婚後十一年生了一個男孩，
夫妻恩愛，男孩自然是二人的寶。

男孩兩歲的某一天，
丈夫在出門上班之際，
看到桌上有一藥瓶打開了，
不過因為趕時間，
他只揚聲妻子把藥瓶收好，
然後就關上門上班去。

妻子在廚房忙得團團轉，
就忘了丈夫的叮囑。

男孩拿藥瓶，
覺得好奇、又被藥水的顏色所吸引，
於是一飲而盡。

藥水成份厲害，
即使成人服用也只能用少量。

男孩OD（Overdose服藥過量），
被送到醫院後，返魂乏術。
妻子被事實嚇呆了，不知如何面對丈夫。

緊張的父親趕到醫院，
得知噩耗非常傷心，看兒子的屍體，
望了妻子一眼，然後說了四個字。

作者叫讀者猜，
這丈夫說了四個甚麼字？


答案是：
「I love you, darling!」

這反應是 Proactive 的
（即反過來控制局面，而不被局面控制）。

作者亦盛讚這丈夫是人類關係的天才，
因為兒子的死已成事實，
再吵再罵也不會改變事實，
只惹來更多的傷心，
而且不只自己失去兒子，
妻子也失去兒子。


這故事，
彰顯人類選擇的自我層次 ，

同一件不幸事你可以怨天尤人，
痛罵社會，甚至自責無窮，
但事情卻不因這些而改變，
這一切只改變了你和日後的生活，
負著疤痕的活下去。

反之，
放下怨恨和懼怕，
放下過去，勇敢的活下去，
事情的境況原來並不如想像中壞，
這就是作者所說的
Proactive Behavior，
也就是我們所說的由人轉境 ，
而不是被外界事物牽著走 。


很簡短的故事，
但是，有多少人能做到呢？
當我看到那句
' I love you, darling! '
的時候，
心中感概萬千......


多麼簡單的一句話，
但要有多久的修練，
多大的包容，多深的人生智慧，
才能在那種時刻
說出如此令人動容的一句話。

每個人都有不想讓人所知的不幸事，
自己選擇了什麼方式去面對，
又怎麼去面對未來，以及週邊的人事物...

R.I.P MJ

Associated Press
updated 9.16pm ET June 25,2009

[Michael Jackson, the sensationally gifted child star who rose to become the “King of Pop” and the biggest celebrity in the world only to fall from his throne in a freakish series of scandals, died Thursday. He was 50.

Jackson died at UCLA Medical Center in Los Angeles. Ed Winter, the assistant chief coroner for Los Angeles County, confirmed his office had been notified of the death and would handle the investigation.

The circumstances of Jackson’s death were not immediately clear. Jackson was not breathing when Los Angeles Fire Department paramedics responded to a call at his Los Angeles home about 12:30 p.m., Capt. Steve Ruda told the Los Angeles Times. The paramedics performed CPR and took him to the hospital, Ruda told the newspaper. ]

It is a sad news, MJ really did rock the world with his talents, and 50 really a young age, althought the song I know from him-Beat it (which is still rock now) and his dance -Moonwalk (still have a lot of artists imitate him)

So , Rest in Peace, MJ

Midterm is coming...

I'll have my company law midterm test on 29 June-MON,
and what am I still doing here?
aihz....

Actually,I'd planned to go back home this weekend,
but..now I realized that I CANT!!

God...So Sucks!
and when everyone out of TRANSFORMER: REVENGE,
but I just STUCK at Kampar,
More SUCKS!

Wuwu.....I want back my City Life!!

Today is not My day

This weekend is Father's Day,
and I cant go back to celebrate with my dad,but at least I still can wish him...
Happy Father Day, and you're always my No.1 Dad...

Opps...I'm kinda 'out of topic',
what I'm trying to say is...
Dear God wont let us to have a healthy programme in Kampar.
The life in Kampar is just as suck as you can imagine,
so we have to find some 'interesting' activities to get out of boredom

This story have to rewind back to the previous week,
Firstly, we were very excited to get our swimsuits,googles, and swim caps.
Because we're getting ready for the swimming session in TARC,
[We that I mentioned is me and my housemate]

As the requirement of the swimming pool in TARC, We'll need to wear our swimming cap and google to get dive in the pool.
We're all well-prepared.

We went to the swimming pool on last tuesday (morning),we just found out that the pool's morning session is just open on saturday.
and that's our fault that didnt make our investigation on the open session of the pool.

Then, today, saturday afternoon-[the open session of the pool is actually 5pm-7.30 (mon-sat)then 9.30am-11am]
we went to the swimming pool again...IT'S CLOSED-because the life guard is taking off today...

OMG...what am I suppose to say? Destiny?
then after that we decided to go for jogging,change our clothes quickly,
just 5 steps out of our gate, rains drops...@@
then me end up here...-blogging...

So ...Is it not a good start for me to try to maintain a healthy life?
aihz...

对UTAR失望透顶！！

现在我真的萌起想转校的念头，从没对utar这么绝望过，
现在它已不算是Non-profit organization了，
为什么会只要fail any subject 就要repeat
utar的负责人，你是真的为学生好吗？

但就算是马来西亚第一学府-Universiti Malaya都没此policy。
大家想想，resit 一科只要RM100，但是如果repeat 一科就要花RM700-RM750

还有，关于校内的parking lot,
他们实行了新的做法两个学期了，就是上网register，你只需要填车牌，车种以及车的颜色
我申请了两个学期都不成功，因为utar完全用computerized system-select randomly,
这是种不公平的做法，因为我怀疑他们根本就没有update 他们的system，
有些学生，上个学期已经申请到car park sticker,然而，这个学期他依然申请到，

我真的宁愿去排队买那car park sticker，起码我没得怨！
真是越想越悲愤！
我这个学期有4天上课上到8点晚上，等我们上完课，天已黑了，
如果我没有car park sticker，我只能park在校外，而从教室走去校外的距离最少要10分钟，是多么的危险
而当我对相关人员反应时，他就很不负责任的叫我搭巴士！